I guess I am going to be doing quarterly updates on my blog...no really, I will try to be better. I have come to a very liberating realization lately: I don't have to do all the little things that don't really matter unless I want to. I have let go of quite a few things that I felt like I had to be doing to be the ultra woman. I have tried to slow down and just enjoy my kids and just do the things that I really want to. Why is it so hard to be truly content with things just as they are? I want to be happy without changing a thing outside of myself. Happy 2009! (That is really hard to type and mean considering I am going to be 33---deep breaths, Cardon.)